Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Kites - Do You Remember Flying Kites as a Kid?

It’s springtime, 2014. The windy season. The time of the year when the cold fronts from the north fight it out with the warm fronts from the south as the earth tries to make up its mind whether its winter or summer. 

It’s kite-flying season!

How many times during recent years have you see kids flying kites in your neighborhood? On a nice, windy day when I was a kid in the 1950’s there would be kites flying in any neighborhood where kids lived.  Not any more. 

Neighborhood Kids Flying Kites (web photo)

Where are all the kites? I still see kites for sale at Walmart but I don’t see any in the sky. Is it because of all the activities and gadgets that vie for a kid’s attention anymore that I don’t see them outside flying kites? In the 1950’s we had television, with a few stations, but no cable or satellite. We had radio, but hand-held transistor radios were still in their infancy, and very expensive. We had telephones but you were tethered to the wall with a wire. There were no cell phones to talk or text on, no electronic games, no personal computers or tablets or Internet to compete for a kid’s attention with the outdoor adventure of flying kites. There were no VCR’s or DVD’s to keep you glued to your TV, no CD players or Walkmans or MP players to steal a lid’s attention from the out-of-doors. There were strip malls, but no enclosed shopping malls with food courts in Southern California to hang out at for hours on end, looking and being seen; the first shopping mall in Southern California was still years in the future, South Coast Plaza in Costa Mesa. 

I would imagine that, to a kid of the 21st Century, we kids in the 1950’s were living in the Dark Ages. 

But we had kites. And as spring rolled around and the wind started blowing, usually in March, we started getting excited about the annual ritual of kite flying. 
In March, the start of the official kite-flying season, I would scrape together all the change I could find, turning in Coke bottles for the refund and looking behind chair and sofa cushions for loose coins. I would walk the one mile or so to the big strip mall with the Thrifty Drug Store on one end. Calling it a “drug store” is kind of a misnomer, because Thrifty Drug Stores had everything. Including kites, lots of kites of all kinds. 

I only liked one kind of kite, the traditional Hi-Flier kite. Kites were cheap in the mid- to late-1950’s, maybe ten or fifteen cents or so. I would buy a couple of kites – you always needed at least one spare kite to replace the one that ends up in a tree or wrapped around a power line – and a ball of string, kite string. 

Hi-Flier Kite (web photo)

Rolled-Up Kite Package (web photo)

Ball of Kite String (web photo)

A tree-lined suburban neighborhood street with its overhead power lines and rooftop TV antennas may not be the best place to fly a kite, but it was all we had, and at the time we never gave it a second thought. 

My Fullerton Neighborhood Today

Once I got the kite and string home I would excitedly start putting it together. It was a fairly simple procedure: unroll the kite package, lay the kite down with the backside up, and insert the two sticks into the strings in the corners. 

Putting the Sticks into the Back of the Kite (web photo)

Next I would tie a length of string between the two ends of the shorter string, making the back of the kite bow a little. Next I would tie the bridle to the front of the kite, to which the main length of kite string would be attached. 

Kite with Bridle and String and Tail Attached


It was always necessary to make a tail for the kite. The tail added stability to the kite, creating drag that kept the kite upright in the wind. You didn’t want anything heavy, just something light to create the drag. For the tail I would look through the hall closet for one of my mom’s old sheets that I could tear strips from, and hoping that mom wouldn’t miss the sheet. The tail would typically be several feet long; the more wind the longer the tail would need to be. If the tail was too short the kite would sway back and forth, perhaps even looping until it nose dived in the ground – or into somebody’s backyard down the street or onto their roof, or into a tree or onto the power lines that ran through the backyards of the neighborhood. If any of that happened the kite was toast, so the proper tail was very necessary. 

Flying a Kite with a Long Tail (web photo)

I never had a real kite string older, a reel with a crank; I always used a length of broom handle to wrap my kite string around. Hopefully I would still have the broom handle from the previous year, but in reality the likelihood of that was pretty slim. So I would find an old broom in the kitchen or garage and cut a piece several inches long off the end, hoping that mom and dad wouldn’t notice that the broom handle was getting shorter. Once I had the kite string wrapped around the broom handle I was ready to fly my kite!

The strength of the wind at ground level, given all the houses and trees in the neighborhood, determined how easy it would be to get the kite airborne. A decent wind meant you could just stand there in your front yard and let string out as the kite took off. The worst case was having to run down the street to try to get the kite airborne. And as I was often too anxious to get my kite in the air, I would often resort to running in the street to get it airborne.

I often went barefoot as a boy, and had to remember, despite my anxiousness to fly, to stop and put on shoes or sandals when running in the street to keep from stubbing my toes, which happened all too often and would ruin my whole day. But running to get the kit airborne didn’t always work, in which case you simply had to grudgingly accept the inevitable, go inside the house to pout and wait for a better day. 

When I was about 15 years old, in 1960, I built a large airplane kite. I never liked box kites, but this was a sort of box kite with wings and tail. I didn’t really have much of an idea of what I was doing, knew nothing about aerodynamics, but built it anyway out of balsa wood sticks covered with tissue wrapping paper. It was big, with a wingspan of about five feet. My two stepbrothers and I carried it to the nearby schoolyard and tried to get it airborne. I ran and ran and ran and did actually get it into the air, but it wouldn’t stay there. There just wasn’t enough wind to keep something that big band heavy in the air. Looking back on it, though, I realize that if it had gotten airborne I don’t know if I would have been strong enough to keep control of it. 

Steve’s Big Airplane Kite

Like with everything else in life, we grow up and our priorities and interests change. Eventually I got interested in other things and lost interest in flying kites, which is a shame. But I will always have the fond memories of holding onto that piece of broomstick and watching my kite soaring in the sky. 

Boy Flying a Kite (web photo)

Steve on His 10th Birthday in 1955


Any comments? Write me at steve@dukeofcushingshire.com





Monday, April 21, 2014

Easter - Do You Remember When Easter Was Fun as a Kid?



           As a kid in the 1950’s I always looked forward to and enjoyed Easter. After the previous Christmas, it was the next kid holiday, followed months later by the Fourth of July and Halloween.

          When I was very young it was just my sister Sue and I. After my father died in 1954, and my mom remarried a couple of years later, our family doubled in size as a “yours and mine and ours” family.


Sister Sue & Steve
Dressed in their Easter Best c1950

            At Valencia Park Elementary School in Fullerton, California in the 1950’s, we kids got out of school the week before Easter as Easter break; today it’s called Spring Break and doesn't necessarily fall on the week before Easter. After the week off playing cowboys and Indians and baseball in the street and flying kites in the spring winds, it was time to get our Easter baskets ready while mom boiled eggs.

It was the fun of a group effort to color Easter eggs, have an Easter egg hunt, and maybe even a picnic in the park. And as my family wasn't very religious, the religious aspect of Easter didn't interfere with the pure fun of the kid “holiday.”

 Coloring Easter Eggs – And Everything Else (web photo)


An Easter Picnic c1952 (web photo)

There is an especially memorable Easter picnic our family went on in the later 1950’s. While we kids were busy ruining our appetites eating Easter eggs and chocolate bunnies and other Easter candies my mom was in the kitchen cooking a picnic lunch. Finally we were on our way to the Fullerton City Park. After playing while she and my dad set the picnic blanket for eating, meat and potato salad and such picnic fare, we sat and started eating. I had thought we were going to get chicken – we always had chicken, but this meat tasted different. As the oldest kid in the family I asked  “What is this?” Nonchalantly my mother replied, “Rabbit.” “Rabbit!”  I blurted out.

It wasn't that I had never eaten rabbit before; to a kid it was more symbolic than that. Who serves rabbit for Easter dinner? We were eating the Easter bunny!  I lost what appetite I had left after eating goodies all morning.

Alas, as we kids got older the magic of Easter lost its luster. How many high school kids do you know who go on Easter egg hunts?  Going door-to-door on Halloween is one thing, but hunting Easter eggs? What high school kid would want to be seen on an Easter egg hunt? How childish!

It’s too bad that we have to grow up.

Things did change later in life, though. As you get older you don’t worry about what others would say about you going on an Easter egg hunt. On the first Easter after my wife Kathy and I were married in early 1977, her mother Ruth invited Kathy and I and her two sisters and their boyfriends to an Easter egg hunt at her home outside San Diego, followed by Easter dinner. Kathy and I decided to go and humor the old lady.

And the Easter egg hunt was fun, mostly because of what we found in addition to the Easter eggs her mother had hid around the yard. Kathy’s father Hank was an alcoholic, and as we looked through the bushes around the yard for eggs we kept finding the old man’s secret stashes of booze bottles. To avoid being seen drinking in the house he had hid bottles outside to drink while supposedly doing yard work. You know, pulling weeds out of the planters and taking a few drinks here and there. We all thought it was funny, left the bottles where we found them and agreed not to tell Ruth about our finds. I suspect, though, that Ruth knew about her husband’s secret stashes. Women always seem to know.

After Kathy and I moved from San Diego to Oklahoma City in 1979 we had our own little Easter egg hunts just for fun. It was just a matter to reliving events from our childhood, and it was fun. We would also go on our own Easter Sunday picnics – but we never had rabbit for our Easter meal.


Steve & Kathy on Easter Sunday 1988


 Steve & Kathy’s Easter Picnic 1982


          I lost my wife Kathy to cancer in 2001, and with her death I lost all of the little traditions that we had and enjoyed. But all is not lost. I’m an old man now (I turned 69 years old in March 2014) and live with my family. I have watched first the grand kids grow up and have their Easter egg hunts, and now there are six little great grand kids ranging in age from a few weeks to four years old and I am reliving my childhood through those little tykes. I can’t get around as well and I once did, but I can still take pictures and enjoy the great grand kids excitement.

Today (April 20, 2014) is Easter Sunday, and I thoroughly enjoyed watching the great grandkids on an Easter egg hunt around my family’s home. Then we had dinner. And rabbit was not on the dinner table.

Grand kids Hunting Easter Eggs 2000

 A Little Tyke Hunting Easter Eggs

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